Being tied down to the bed can be a lot of fun, whether you are using soft rope or a tie from the closet. The giving of power to feel yourself restrained frees your mind and heightens the sensations that you feel all across your body.

It can be a little scary, even with a partner you have been with for years, but that fear is also exhilarating.

Any of these beautiful restraints will provide you kinky fun.  Remember to play safe, so that you and your partner will enjoy these wonderful toys for years to come. Here are a few tips to make sure both of you enjoy your bondage and kinky play from both sides.

• Check cuffs and straps to make sure the bound partner has ample circulation and is comfortable. If your partner indicates any numbness, tingling, or cooling of toes or fingers, remove the cuffs right away and rub the hands or feet to help renew circulation.
• When binding arms at or above shoulder level, even when flat on the bed, make sure that your partner can breathe comfortably.
• Have scissors in quick reach that are designed to cut through rope or straps. You can always replace ropes and straps, but in an emergency it is important that you can get your partner out of bondage fast.
• Use a safe word. This should be a quick, easy to remember signal that the bound partner uses to signal that play needs to pause or stop. If you are using a gag, have keys or another loud item that your bound partner can drop as a signal.

Play safe and play fun.