Getting it in the ass from your wife or girlfriend is a favorite secret fantasy of many dudes. . . and their partners.   This is called a backdoor boyfriend, and there’s no shame in this game.  If you have never been reamed, we can’t recommend it enough.

Strap on dildos and harnesses are GREAT sex toys for couples. For straight couples, they are a fun way to experiment. For lesbian couples, they allow for an added level of excitement. And for gay male couples they open up wonderfully imaginative scenarios.

When you use a strap on, safety is of paramount importance. Go SLOW and use a lot of lube – especially if you’re not used to it. You can certainly work up to going fast and hard, but start slow.

Fantasies run wild and inhibitions find their way out the door with this inspiring selection of strap-on harnesses and strap-on specific dildos and attachments. Strap on harnesses and strap on dildos are a simple and delightful way for either gay/lesbian, straight or bisexual couples to experiment the night away and let some seductive secrets safely come out to play. Are you seeking a “backdoor boyfriend” to give a good fill of his own?

Or perhaps you’ve got a little tranny dream rising to the front of your mind on a dark night. Do you dream of getting as much as you give, of adding some vibration to your lusty energy vibes while either topping or being topped by the well-endowed or the super-slim?

Some styles are built for the gentle introduction, some made for perfectly balanced stimulation and penetration for both parties and there are others made for the express purpose of testing your stretching limits. A few have two penetrators and several are hollow so you can role play your way through the evening, masquerading as another man or to aid those experiencing those truly unpleasant bouts of erectile dysfunction that all men endure from time to time.

Additionally there are models which allow you to double penetrate your lover or be penetrated either vaginally or anally while still using the strap-on to deliver pleasure to your partner. There are beginner kits, materials in silicone or flesh replicating substances, a variety of color options for both the harness and the additional attachments and there’s a system called Vac-U-Lock that makes wearing a strap-on look and feel even more natural than some of the other harnesses out there.

If you do get a strap on, we have a couple recommendations:

•  Go SLOW, you can get hurt so go slow
• Start small, don’t jump to a 10″ dildo on your first go round, use an anal dildo
• Use LOT’s of lube – we recommend a good water-based lube and A LOT of it.

Even the styles for harnesses vary from thong like backs to a back that’s more like a jock strap and all the harnesses are fully adjustable around the waist so one size will almost always fit all. It’s a veritable plethora of experimental excitement just waiting to sensually enhance so many nights with your lover.